Does being wet the first time during sex reduce pain?
Im still a virgin, but ive masturbated and can become turned on, so i wanted to know if becoming wet during my first time will help with the pain that many other girls experience their first time
answer: Being wet will reduce the pain for sure, you may experience a little bit still, it just depends on your pain threshold. When you decide to have sex for the first time, have a lot of foreplay or mutual masturbation before hand. Having a orgasm may help too as this will relax you more. It will hurt sweets but it's more of a pleasurable pain more than anything. If it hurts too much ask your man to stop.
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Yes, being wet helps.
This is one of the changes your vagina goes through to allow for penetration during sex without damage (pain results when the vagina is damaged through forced penetration, this is not only not enjoyable but also potentially increases risk of infections and STD's). Your vagina when aroused will also open, increase in size by almost twice as large, and relax, this is why we have 'foreplay' as well as making sex more enjoyable for us women (only around 30% of women orgasm during intercourse alone) it also makes sure that our vagina is ready for penetration by making sure we're aroused - ideally you want to orgasm at least once before you attempt intercourse to make sure you're vagina is aroused enough to allow pain-free penetration. That is one of the many benefits of masturbation, it helps us learn about our bodies, sexual response and how we like to be stimulated, so we can then teach our partners how to touch us to turn us on before intercourse. As a note, if you expect sex to hurt then it will as you'll tense up rather than just relax and enjoy yourself!
Other girls tend to experience pain the first time either because they are not ready to take that step so tense up, or because they are not aroused enough for penetration so it's forced. Sex should never be painful, girls often experience pain as they don't know enough to know how to prevent pain, they pass on this idea that sex is painful based on their experiences, not on fact - think about it, your body is no different from a non-virgins, pain doesn't come form the vagina not being used to sex but from not knowing how to have sex outside of knowing that the penis goes into the vagina. As a note most girls hymens are torn by the time they have sex the first time, the hymen tears several times in your life, and the hymen is stretchy so can expand rather than break during sex, even if it breaks it is rarely painful.
Take a look through these articles;
Ready or Not? The Scarleteen Sex Readiness Checklist - http://www.scarleteen.com/article/boyfri?/a> - this is very good, if you read nothing else at least take a look through this article.
From Ow! To Wow! Demystifying Painful Intercourse - http://www.scarleteen.com/article/pink/f?/a>
First Intercourse 101 - http://www.scarleteen.com/article/sexual?/a>
A guide to loosing your virginity - http://the-clitoris.com/f_html/female_vi?/a>
This is one of the changes your vagina goes through to allow for penetration during sex without damage (pain results when the vagina is damaged through forced penetration, this is not only not enjoyable but also potentially increases risk of infections and STD's). Your vagina when aroused will also open, increase in size by almost twice as large, and relax, this is why we have 'foreplay' as well as making sex more enjoyable for us women (only around 30% of women orgasm during intercourse alone) it also makes sure that our vagina is ready for penetration by making sure we're aroused - ideally you want to orgasm at least once before you attempt intercourse to make sure you're vagina is aroused enough to allow pain-free penetration. That is one of the many benefits of masturbation, it helps us learn about our bodies, sexual response and how we like to be stimulated, so we can then teach our partners how to touch us to turn us on before intercourse. As a note, if you expect sex to hurt then it will as you'll tense up rather than just relax and enjoy yourself!
Other girls tend to experience pain the first time either because they are not ready to take that step so tense up, or because they are not aroused enough for penetration so it's forced. Sex should never be painful, girls often experience pain as they don't know enough to know how to prevent pain, they pass on this idea that sex is painful based on their experiences, not on fact - think about it, your body is no different from a non-virgins, pain doesn't come form the vagina not being used to sex but from not knowing how to have sex outside of knowing that the penis goes into the vagina. As a note most girls hymens are torn by the time they have sex the first time, the hymen tears several times in your life, and the hymen is stretchy so can expand rather than break during sex, even if it breaks it is rarely painful.
Take a look through these articles;
Ready or Not? The Scarleteen Sex Readiness Checklist - http://www.scarleteen.com/article/boyfri?/a> - this is very good, if you read nothing else at least take a look through this article.
From Ow! To Wow! Demystifying Painful Intercourse - http://www.scarleteen.com/article/pink/f?/a>
First Intercourse 101 - http://www.scarleteen.com/article/sexual?/a>
A guide to loosing your virginity - http://the-clitoris.com/f_html/female_vi?/a>
well the first time i had sex we did other things before like fingering and so on.
which got me wet of corse.
and when he stuck it in it was easier but the pain was still veryyyyy bad.
i think being wet just makes it easier and much more pleasurable
which got me wet of corse.
and when he stuck it in it was easier but the pain was still veryyyyy bad.
i think being wet just makes it easier and much more pleasurable
Source(s):
personal experience
It might help a little bit, but the pain generally comes from the tearing of the hymen, and the stretching of the muscles the first time. Trust me, many girls are turned on their first time and have experienced pain, having pain doesn't mean they didn't want it.
Not just the first time, but every time. Dry sex is always uncomfortable if not painful.
First time sex can be painful, because you're tense. It helps to be with someone you love and he loves you and in a place where you feel at ease and knowing you won't get disturbed.
First time sex can be painful, because you're tense. It helps to be with someone you love and he loves you and in a place where you feel at ease and knowing you won't get disturbed.
wetter is better.lol seriously it will reduce the pain. the wetness will make his penis slid in easier and faster. once its in its not so bad. first couple times may be uncomfortable. you may not even have an orgasim. but most women dont.. u might be one of the blucky ones :]
Yes it will ease the pain a lot . My first time he got me wet my fingering me and having oral on me . I sat on top and eased down on him as he was big and after the first 5 min's it got better till the next day.
Yes, because without being "wet" there is no lubrication so its pretty much just dry skin rubbing on dry skin....ouch? So yes, it does help.
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