Not really attracted to girls or guys. How do I lose my virginity?

Hello everyone, I'm 18 years old and have never had sex. I think I'm the only person I know who's still a virgin. The problem with me is that I don't feel a very strong attraction to either men or women. I've had a "girlfriend" in the past, but I broke up with her when I realized I didn't love her.

I want to lose my virginity so bad. What must I do?

I'm 21, and felt the same way of not really having too much attrction to people. Just in the last few months I've started to think of having a girlfriend. I just didn't want a relationship yet. There is nothing wrong with not being ready for or not wanting a relationship yet even though it seems like everybody else does (I promise you that a lot of them actually feel the same way you do but force themselves to have a relationship because they are worried about fitting in or how they're viewed socially). When the time comes you will find yourself in a relationship, too. But until then, why lose your virginity? Hopefully sex means more to you than just something that you can check off of a list of things to do when you turn 18. It will mean more to you if you save it.

First of all, lots of people don't lose their virginity by 18, so don't worry about it.

Second, you don't really want to lose it so much as you just want to feel like you fit in. Having sex is a very personal thing, so you are not obligated to discuss it with anybody. If your friends tease you about being a virgin, they aren't very good friends. Tell them you'll have sex when the right person comes along, not with some scank or whore just to say you're not a virgin anymore.

If you do it for the wrong reasons, you'll remember it as a bad experience forever. Trust me, you never forget the first time.

Don't give in to peer pressure, or some misguided idea of normalcy. Sex belongs to marriage. Don't be fooled into believing that intimate relations with someone who is not your wife is o k. If you aren't married, sex is not for you. In our culture, anything goes, but remember, the majority is usually wrong.

Genesis: God created marriage, and set the parameters.

First off its all cool if u don't want to, if its cause ur not attracted to someone. u can use an animal if u want to lose it 4 yourself, though this is illegal and "socially unacceptable". When your friends ask why, act angry, claim strong religious reasons, and tell them ur parents died of syphilis(get detailed and angry)

If you're not attracted to girls and not attracted to guys, why would you want to lose your virginity so badly?

Don't dwell on it. When you meet the right person, you'll feel the attraction and it will be time to leave your virginity behind...

Find a girlfriend unless you are interested in anal.

tell a random person to take your virginity.....

get an empty bottle of beer,..